Compassionate Connections Sex + Couples Counseling

Toby Hawkins, LCSW (New York licensed) is a supportive, compassionate, collaborative therapist who specializes in individual therapy & relationship therapy. Toby will invite you to explore relational dynamics, deepen your connection with your partner (s), and work through challenges together. Toby is committed to creating an inclusive space where all couples, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community, can feel seen, heard, and supported.

Toby specializes in attachment wounds and developmental trauma, namely exploring how early attachment experiences and childhood relationships shape the way we relate to one another. Toby will offer space to help you uncover how past experiences may be affecting your current relationship dynamics, including supporting you to understand your relationship patterns and working with you to create new ways of relating that promote security, trust, and deeper emotional connection.

Toby is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Somatic Therapy and Narrative Therapy and will use these techniques to create a tailored plan to best support you.